Inspiring Acceptance in a Judgmental Society: Why I Wrote “SoupChad”

SoupChad is my new book about a boy so obsessed with soup that he starts his own 'Soup Club' in middle school. Ridiculed initially, he soon wins other kids over with his unbounded enthusiasm and penchant for bestowing soup nicknames like Chowder and Matzo Ball on club members. But SoupChad wants more and turns his club members into bullies against kids who think differently: those who prefer salad. Accompanied by eleven illustrations, 'SoupChad' uses humor and allegory to demonstrate the value of learning to accept differences. Tolerance sometimes seems to be a difficult subject to address in a world where intolerance is almost normalized. I'm hoping SoupChad can be helpful in fighting against that.

Why is it challenging to teach acceptance in a Judgmental society?

People are quick to judge others without understanding their situation. This can make it hard for kids to feel accepted, even if they try their best. Additionally, when everyone around them constantly judges others, it can make it difficult for children to see the good in people and appreciate their differences. Adults need to model acceptance and open-mindedness so that kids can learn to do the same. 


Additionally, it is essential to create an environment where children can feel safe to share their opinions and beliefs without fear of judgment. This can be done by encouraging constructive dialogue and listening to each other’s perspectives. It is also important to talk about how everyone has different experiences and that no one way of life or belief system is better than another. By doing this, we can create a more accepting society where everyone feels valued, accepted, and respected regardless of their background or beliefs.

As the leader of the Soup Club, ‘SoupChad’ tries to instill fear in those who disagree with him. At first, he spreads rumors about the dangers of salad. When that doesn’t work, he leads his club members on a campaign of intimidation against kids who disagree with him. But no one likes to be told what to think, and soon, a lunchroom resistance spreads among kids who like lettuce.

But Do Kids Understand Allegory?

Do kids understand allegory? Yes, many children can understand allegory and use it to promote harmony. By understanding allegory, children can see beyond the surface level of differences and appreciate the underlying message of acceptance.


Allegories are stories with “hidden” meanings that can be interpreted to teach a lesson. They've been used for centuries to teach children moral values and help them make sense of the world around them. In a judgmental society, promoting harmony and acceptance is more important than ever. 

My goal in writing SoupChad as an allegory is to encourage children to adopt a more tolerant and open-minded attitude toward others. Hopefully, they'll laugh along the way, too.

Let me know what you think.

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